A recent article from Thrillist covered a new nightclub in Philadelphia that is installing touch screen computers into their club space. For me. this brings up an interesting question of when and where to offer socially based technologies. I wonder, how cool is it to have your nose in a phone or computer when there is real life going on around you? We’ve seen a growing value for meaningful experiences as well as the integration of technology and physical activities; refer to our previous posting about “big games” for more examples. Maybe I’m just being nostalgic about the time when I was satisfied with the company that physically surrounded me. I mean, should I start getting comfortable with the fact that the new process of a romantic relationship is this: I will hit on a girl through Loopt, work out our arguments through Facebook status updates, and then break up via text?
As we’ve moved closer to core values and the idea of deeper, more meaningful relationships, one would think it might become somewhat un-cool to prefer interacting with a machine than a human or physical environment. I think back to one of John Lennon’s quotes, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.” This could be updated to “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy texting someone to find out the next cool place to go.” Now, I’m just as guilty as the next guy, but lately I’m starting to feel the need to stop all the constant checking and updating of my social media accounts. I feel like the biggest loser when I’m more interested in capturing an iPhone image of Karen O instead of enjoying the concert while it’s going on…mainly because I feel I’m a phony fan who’s more focused on the status of being at a cool show rather than actually liking a cool show. Judd Apatow recently was interviewed by a hipster literary magazine, The Believer. I think he hit right on it. He said, I’m paraphrasing here, I enjoy the idea of being someone who reads the Believer more than I actually enjoy reading it.
So the question is, will geeking-out in social settings always be OK or will it become socially lame to be caught up in what people are doing elsewhere? And, are we more concerned with building our status than building a life filled with activities we intrinsically enjoy?
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